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Archive for October, 2008

beauty

‘An enemy is a person whose story we have not heard’

Gene Knudsen Hoffman

chez john

Well it’s gradually all falling into place. The builder has replaced the doors on the kitchen which he knackered when putting the handles on the wrong way, and its really just a case of some finishing touches – painting (yes, more of the same), a floor to lay, the boiler to fit then we should be ready to rock and roll!

I can’t believe it’s nearly a year since I bought the place! 14th December was the date the sale went through. Work began in January and must finish soon – no more money left! Let’s not go there!

Check out the pictures over on my bebo. There’s before, during and afters which I’m going to print off and stick in a big frame. Very cool thing to have been able to do – renovate an old property that is. I’m a very lucky boy.

Now Auntie Shuna, all you have to do is find me someone to share it with!

when excitement becomes despair

I’m just back from a long weekend in London. Amazing weather, two West End shows, good food and a great bunch of people. Sounds ideal, doesn’t it? I’d been looking forward to it for so long – booked a year ago.

But I wasn’t my usual self – not just internally, but whatever was up was showing on the outside too – people commented. I’m not sure what was/ is up. I do know I was forced to slow to a pace which I don’t recognise. At home I go ten to the dozen almost constantly and being away and in company didn’t allow me that speed. As a result I landed a stinker of a cold – sore throat, cough, runny nose – man flu. Put a bit of a dampner on things. Then there was the fact that I was surrounded by the city – people, movement, money, jobs, economy – makes the world go round? Perhaps. But then those of you who read anything on my blog will know that i don’t believe in cities, or at least the future of them. I’m much more of the less global, more local types who realises that this thing we call an economy functions inside a community – but that we’ve forgotten that and put the emphasis on the wrong bit.

Seeing people focussed on saving that old model, the boom model, particularly in the context of last weekends nationalisation of the major banks, shocked me. Can’t help but feel the world’s headed in the wrong direction.

The weekend shook me up – reminded me that January brings with it unemployment and no mortgage payment. Found myself despairing at times in the midst of what should have been one of the better weekends of the year.

Life goes on.

feeling the conflict

‘It is hard to summarize such a complicated history in a few words. Your description is true in general, but of course each side in the conflict has its own narrative. It is truly the homeland of these two peoples. Many Jews were expelled from it and suffered a lot, and then there was the Shoah — or, in English, the “Holocaust.” But facts are not enough. If you want to understand the conflict, you have to feel it. You have to take the emotional point of view of both peoples: the fear, the despair, the lack of certainty about the future, the lack of confidence in other human beings. The Israelis have a feeling of existential solitude, of being different from any other nation, and a collective memory of having been persecuted for centuries. The Palestinians are a people who, in the last century, were crushed by many different occupations. Before the Israelis, they were under the occupation of the Turks, the Egyptians, the Jordanians. There is a heavy consequence of being subjugated for so many years: it breaks the spirit of the people.

We are talking about two peoples so heavily damaged and distorted by past and present traumas that they can no longer identify what their real interests are. And quite often they act against those interests just to cause some damage to the enemy. Both peoples need a long and deep process of recovery, and this recovery will not start until they have identities that are separate and not interwoven, identities that allow each other just to be and to start to build up their own nation without occupation, terror, or hatred. Only then will both of them start to recover and lead the lives that they deserve to live and have been deprived of for so long’

This is a quote by Israeli author David Grossman. It reminds me, on a completely different scale and depth, of my own place. It tells me that the world could learn much from this nation, if only it might listen.

communicative art

How many times have you heard someone say ‘I didn’t know about that’, or ‘but no-one told me’? Those are the two phrases I hear repeated more than any others in my day to day work. The cynical amongst us may suggest that they are simply excuses, ways of avoiding a meeting or event which we just can’t be bothered attending. But perhaps for many they are real and legitimate concerns, phrases which are symptomatic of a much wider communication crisis which is manifest in so many groups, organisations and communities.

 

In my work, I’m privileged enough to be able to attend and participate in a huge number of local groups. I find myself constantly overwhelmed by the volume of information which I’m party to, and struggle to keep track of developments and opportunities. And that’s my work – how on earth is a volunteer juggling numerous commitments ever expected to keep abreast of such things?

 

Conversely, it’s always easy for an individual or a group to become comfortably ‘in the know’ and to forget about the wider community who are equally entitled to access to that same information. It’s very easy to get caught up in the day to day business of an organisation and forget to report progress and developments to the wider world and before long the shape of a project or an idea can have changed so much to the extent that it’s no longer recognisable. The phrase ‘knowledge is power’ often rings true.

 

In an attempt to address some of the issues I’ve raised above, here in Douglas we’ve established a group which has become known as ‘Douglas Talking’. A forum which is open to all, it aims to improve communication within our community and increase opportunities for participation. The group meet face to face every few months and the discussions which take place are summarised and published in the local newspaper. The group hope to erect a Village Notice Board and utilise our local community council website to share the information which they possess. An online communications forum has also been developed to which documents and files can be uploaded, shared and commented on by anyone in the community. None of these methods of communication can stand alone; there are barriers to them all, but by providing information in a variety of formats it’s hoped that access will be maximised.

 

Very much in the early stages of development, forum attendance to date has been sporadic and momentum has been difficult to maintain. Perseverance will be required if it is to succeed, and a commitment of time and energy from many already busy people required. That’s important to recognise – an effective communication strategy requires significant resourcing. Meetings require advertising and facilitation. Community newsletters require coordination, compilation and cost money. Websites need updating and online hubs and forums rely on people setting aside time to contribute – all this on top of running an organisation or developing a project! It’s no wonder commercial firms and businesses often employ communications officers!

 

But regardless of the extra resources required to help communication happen, I think it’s important to recognise that it’s often a dialogue with the wider community, a free flow of information and an open and transparent method of operating which can be the difference between success and failure of a group, organisation, even a community. No-one likes a clique or a closed shop, or a group which sends out a clear message of disrespect when it maintains that the information it holds shouldn’t be in the public domain. But a group or a community which shares information, which recognises the importance of doing so and which works hard to eradicate the phrase ‘but no-one told me’ is surely one which has a characteristic of success fixed securely within it